Did y’all know that May is Masturbation Month? 

Well, now you do! 

Also, welcome back to the Nightstand! 

These past few months have been something else. Around six months ago, my girlfriend and I split and after being together for basically two years, it was hard on me. Therapy has been great, but healing from a two year relationship is going to take some time. Probably more time than just six months. My therapist asked me tonight if I see myself getting back together with her. He respected my answer and appreciated my honesty on the matter. I mean, why would I lie to the one person I can tell anything to and who is paid not to judge me? 

Therapy has also brought up some other things going on with me too. I mean that in the best of ways too. So these past few months have been a mix of dealing with ex things and beginning to open up doors that have been shut but needed to be open to help me succeed with this thing called life. Last week tho, my therapist said that he was proud of me. He’s said that to me before, but after I did a hard thing to hear that?! It hit very differently.

Needless to say, therapy has been good. But, also a lot of work too. Combine that with it being busy season at my day job, and sprinkle on some seasonal depression? Ya boy has been tired. Too tired to focus on this little blog of mine. I failed to mention my ADHD, ha. That complicates things a bit too. It’s like, I want to do the things, but the way that my body and mind are set up, it won’t actually let me do those things, sometimes. The way that my mind is set up is just wild. It’s also exhausting too. 

My point with telling you all that is, life happened, currently is happening, and this fell to the wayside. I’m sure this won’t be the last time, but, hopefully, I’ll get this more organized, just give me some time. 

Anyways, unlike other hobbies and side projects, this is still something I feel quite strongly about. This, creating a sort of community and brand is needed, at least in my opinion. The world is missing what I have to offer. Also, there’s still much bigger goals with this too. Combining sex and education is a dream of mine. 

With everything being said, thanks for sticking along, and please be sure to keep checking back. I promise there are some good things ahead. The Artist series is pretty much all written, along with a couple of reviews, AND, I’m going to be launching a product soon, which I’m super pumped about. With the right marketing and branding, I have a potential hot item on my hands. There’s nothing too special about it, but it’s just super smart and it’s something that’s not out there- I looked. Look for that some time in June. For writings and reviews, look for those in a couple of weeks! 

Until then, please enjoy Masturbation Month, and rub a few off. Being that SCOTUS is planning on reversing Roe v. Wade, it’s probably the best option out there right now.